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Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Was Full of Disappointments Yesterday!!!

I was quite happy when last Saturday one of our Angolan cleaning ladies realized that I was pregnant, she came and spoken to me. I said to her, I need medicines to secure my baby! She said why don't you ask our Angolan doctor to go with you to a Korean OB-Gyne in their local town. I was totally stunned and with full of happiness, that despite of my situation, there's still a way to safeguard my baby. I thanked God and did see my hubby straight away if we could both arranged if visiting this Korean lady in Cafunfo town.

Which we duly did yesterday, and we managed to get authorization to get out of the camp and headed straight to their local hospital to see our Angola doctor first! He then made a corresponding request to see her ASAP! His Angolan nurse came back said, "SHE WAS BUSY" and she was attending something very important!!!.. He then phoned her, and I was disappointed even more especially when we learned that she won't be available until further advise... huhuhuhu...

We then directed to another doctor - another useless one! I was so frustrated - that why on earth he had to bring me to another doctor who has no idea about pregnancy whatsoever!! He happened to be the HOSPITAL DIRECTOR, then what are we doing here? (first thing came to my mind)... hubby said to hang on... He asked me some questions, for file purposes while our Angolan nurse was preparing the bed!!! Then this director stood up, went outside to get a pair of GLOVES??? Because he wanted to check how my ovary was or uterus whatever that was!!! The moment I saw it, I SAID NO NO NO NO NO! Nobody can touch me..... I said to hubby please honey stop him, I don't need this!

HELLO...... HE IS NOT AN OB-GYNE, YET HE WANTED TO INSERT HIS FINGERS IN TO MINE???? Urrrgggghhhhhhhh!!!!!!!

Then hubby explained that we don't came here for him to check, for any laboratory nor physical check ups - ALL WE NEEDED IS A PROPER OB-GYNE to give me a prescription for me to take for my BABY SECURITY and PRENATAL VITAMINS! I really cried..... The same doctor then wrote another in a piece of paper for a laboratory examinations to be made - MY BLOOD and URINE? They wanted to make sure if I don't have any infections, I said fine but where is the laboratory? We drove down to see another clinic and what shocked me as soon as we got in.......

OUR TOILET IS MUCH BETTER AND MUCH CLEANER THAN THEIR LABORATORY!!! I nearly walked out and wanted to scream.... huhuhuhu...thanks God hubby was there to give me moral support, that he had to keep on telling me that WE ARE IN ANGOLA, THERE'S NO WAY WE CAN DO MORE.... huhuhuhuhu... He took some blood, tested for some reason but he said I WAS NEGATIVE OF ANY INFECTION! I didn't trust it, nor believed that I needed these,,,,,,,, I was even more stressful!!!!

It was passed 12 noon already, he advised us to see our doctor again but WE DID NOT!! We decided to come back to the camp straight away. Hopefully sometime this week, we could be able to get hold of this KOREAN OB-GYNE, otherwise, will insist to be taken down to LUANDA or TO LOOSE OUR BABY AGAIN... Please I need your prayers....
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17 comments:

chubskulit said...

Hello sis, just keep your faith strong, He is there to take care of you and the baby/ies. Don't stress yourself too much becuase it won't help your situation.. Remember to take things easy, bawal mastress ang buntis...

misty said...

Natatawa ako at the same time concern about your situation. Don't stress yourself that way again kasi remember na may history ka na of miscarriage, you have to be very careful sis..

I have an award for you, cheer up.. God will take care of both of you..

Cecile said...

what a very bad experienced you have had yesterday, dear! So sorry to hear that, Madz :-(. Reminds me of my experienced in the Philippines almost two years ago. Anyway, I hope things will be fine with you and the baby. I will be praying for you and the baby. Just relax now for stress can be harmful to the baby as well..easier than done, but you have to do it for the sake of the baby and also you! Take care...

Cecile said...

rest na lang muna dear, don't worry about visiting blogs. we understand your situation and be praying for you.

Lynn said...

sis, sorry to hear about this. i'll be praying for you and your baby's safety. you won't lose your baby sis. not again. keep the faith! and i'm hoping that you'd be able to meet the korean doctor the soonest na. i know how hard it is for you, mentally and emotionally. don't worry too much sis, makaka affect din sa baby yan eh. be positive. everything will turn out fine, okay? take care. mwahugs!

Rechie said...

My God te, that was definitely a bad day. If ako cguro ang naa sa imu sitwasyon na gisumbag na naku tong "make-believe doctor" kaswerte pud niya. Anyway te, Be strong and have faith in God. Everything's gonna be fine..i'll pray for you and the baby health. Just stop stressing yourself too much. Get beauty rest a lot.

amiable amy said...

that is an awful day and you are so RIGHT to say NO adto nga tao..d jud sya OB, ngano maglabot man sya sa imo? bisan tan aw....no pwede jud...good nga wa ka sugot

relax lang dear and just pray...kung catholic pa unta ka, suggest nako you ask help from Divine Mercy...very miraculous, infact, back home naa jud ko living testimony sa ako friend who experienced the same sa imo....i have a picture in my blog about divine mercy

basta, pray lang jud and have a positive outlook...be happy everyday and erase your worries...just rest and relax

chelle said...

Madz, i hope everything will be ok sa inyong dalawa ni baby.. basta take care of yourself always pati k baby...

D said...

Hala ka oi, naunsa man pud tong hospital director na nidiretso lang man pud kuha ug gloves! Dapat gi-ask sa ka niya kung ok ba sa imo, he should have asked for consent first. Anyway, all the other people who posted comments here are right Madz. Don't let this stress you so much kay you are in a very fragile and delicate state right now, maselan imong pregnancy tapos naa ka pud history of miscarriage. Be strong gyud, ayaw nalang ni huna-hunaa. Hopefully magkita ra mo adtong KOrean OB-GYNE and you will be checked by a specialist in the field. My prayers are with you DHangz...

Dhemz said...

holy cow! what in the world...that was a very bad day for you dangz...hahha..nisamot ka ug kaulit kay ang hormones ta dha kung buntis....dali ra mabikil...hehhe! just keep prating na lang ..I know God is there to help you....sometimes you have to deal with these kind of people...hehhe...at least Dangz naka decide ka nga mag consult jud ug prof na doctors...ang baby ta unya....take care jud ug au! hinay-hinay lang ma stress out unya ka lisod na....when man ka mag larga? agoy malayo day ka ani ni banana mo? hehhe....au-au dha sistah....hope to hear from you soon! I hope everything will be ok!

Mom of Four said...

I had a wonderful OB-Gyn when I had Wrozlie in South Korea. He's Korean and his name is Dr. Park. I just had hard time at the hospital since nobody wants to talk to me..

Take it easy..Wag masyado ma stress..basta need na sa OB ka lang pupunta..How far is your pregnancy na ba?

benchiegrace said...

hi madz, i hope your feeling better now, just relax and pray..and everything will work out fine...

Umma said...

My God!! nakaka antig damdamin naman ang story mo Dhangz oi! Nakakaloka as in parang I want to scream from the top of my lungs..

You were very right not to let that guy touched you even your fingertips lang.. Ano xia, taking advantage of some woman eventhough she is pregnant? Makidlatan unta xia sina.

Besides, it doesnt make sense that he needs to IE you bec it he doesnt need to.

Just think positive Dhangz, I know, I know its hard to think that way if I were on your shoes. Ako ana nag panic na ko. But at this point of your life with the problems that you are facing right now, you should be optimistic kay maka affect baya na sa baby..

I guess this is a miracle baby jud kay daghan kaayo na encounter na problema sa iyaha. But believe me, you will survive dhangz..Dont lose your faith in HIM... God has always a plan for us and this time, HE is giving you all these bec HE knows na kaya man jud ni nimo.. I believe you are a Fighter man jud as well as the baby.. You will both fight and will soon become a winner.

After all these agonizing time, Im sure malusutan ni nimo tanan Dhangz, lucky you to have a hubby like that who always supports you all the way.

Keep the FAITH sistah.. Kaya ni nimo.. Take care and God Bless! You will be included in my daily prayers.

kittykat said...

What's up with that from one crazy situation to another..But mare don't let situations like that get into you..just keep your cool and stay calm ok..I know God is always there for you you maybe going through a lot of "tests" right now but I know He has a purpose..after all that has happened one day you will look back at all the things you went through..And it will make you appreciate more the gift He has given you..Your little angel..I am sure he/she is worth all the trouble you are going through right now..Just don't lose the faith my dear..We are also praying for you okay..Take care always..

niko said...

ow dear, kanina pa kita gusto bisitahin but we have slow connection sa office kanina. sigh.

i can imagine ang pag ayaw mo sa IE, imagine di naman siya OB and all. gosh taking advantage of the situation pa, buti na lng humindi ka dear! anu sya sinuswerte?!

wla ba malapit na hospital jan dear? kasi am worried, dpat nacheckup ka na. am praying na sana macheckup ka na nung korean OB gyne the sooonest possible time. haaaay u need thaat na tlga for u and the baby.

you are always in my prayer dear. keep ur faith, at ang lagi kong sinasabi sa sarili ko pag problemado - this too shall pass!

i say dear.. that too shall pass!! with God all this shall pass.

take care buntis ha!! update us.

mwah mwah

Lanie said...

Hi Madz, you should go to the regular obgyn doctor. Don't just go to any doctor that don't have knowledge to any women who is pregnant.

Just take extra careful of yourself to hold on of your uborn baby.

ipadtouch said...

That was really hilarious! That hospital director who wants to know something you dont by inserting her hands on your thing? Ohhh I wont let it happen with my too. It is ok if he is a real OB-gyne...Just keep the faith for your baby. Don't make your day always a stressful day for it can affect to your baby's health also.

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